Wednesday, August 7, 2013

It looks funny but I think it works for Glue Ear.

                                    
 
In mid-June I got a head cold, just a routine head cold, but it caused both of my ears to become blocked up. So much so that I couldn't hear much of anything for a week or more. I finally broke down (relatives and friends hounded me into it) and saw my doctor. She prescribed antibiotics (grrrr -- I knew she'd do it even though I'm in that club that thinks we take far too many unnecessary antibiotics). But, it turns out to have been a good thing because at this same time I'd been bitten by a tiny tick and within a few days after starting the antibiotics for the ears I noticed  the classic bull's eye around the site of the bite. The doctor extended the Rx for the anti's and said they would do double-duty: combat the nasty Lyme spirochete and any bacterial opportunists in my ears. She said I could also take standard OTC antihistamines (over the pharmacist's counter that is, since you now have to register with the Drug Enforcement Agency to score pseudoephedrine -- thanks methheads).
 
Two weeks of antihistamines and three weeks of antibiotics later one ear was still annoyingly blocked up. So I saw an ENT specialist, reluctantly. I was pleasantly surprised when he sent me home with this little balloon device. Nothing pharmaceutical, nothing invasive -- unless you count blowing air up your nose invasive.
 
I think it helped! I used it for a week, felt that my ear was gradually clearing up, then stopped for a few days. The blockage started creeping back so I resumed using it, and now my ears feel fine. As with many medical treatments, I'll never know if the ears were going to clear up anyway so I don't know for a fact that the balloon worked, but I'll use it again if this should happen again.
 
Otovent seems to be big in the UK. People there use it for what they call "glue ear." I've been telling people that I had "blockage of the Eustachian tubes" which everyone seemed to immediately understand. But if I was in London I could have just said "glue ear" -- a vaguely disgusting term although it is succinct and descriptive.
 
I loved telling people that I was treating my blocked Eustachian tubes by blowing up a balloon with my nose.

 


Tuesday, August 6, 2013

My summer of reading Poverty Porn.







Without intending to, I've been reading lots of books this summer in which poverty is a major character, or at least an important element in the story. Some of these books are nonfiction so I kind of knew what I was getting into. But some are fiction and I had no idea I'd be encountering detailed descriptions of hunger and deprivation. Some of these books I would recommend; others I would not.

Nothing to Envy: Ordinary Lives in North Korea (Barbara Demick)
I know (knew) nothing about North Korea before I read this book. It's the true story of how a handful of North Koreans managed to escape from this repressive country, and the reader learns much about the famine and starvation that has plagued the country ever since the fall of the Soviet Union. Among the many vivid images is an account of how starving citizens would head outside in the very early morning looking for grass shoots that had popped up overnight. This was considered breakfast.

The Clergyman's Daughter (George Orwell)
I'm slowly working my way through George Orwell's "other" novels -- meaning those other than the ones many readers know well: 1984 and Animal Farm. This novel is set in the UK in the mid-1930s. Part of the plot involves a period of amnesia for the main character who finds herself wandering around the countryside searching for food, which often means eating rotting apples she finds in orchards, and wrapping herself in newspapers at night in a mostly unsuccessful attempt to ward off the cold.

Behind the Beautiful Forevers (Katherine Boo)
This book, written by an LA Times reporter who spent several years living in Mumbai, India, tells the horrific story of improverished trash scavengers who live in improvised cities near the international airport in Mumbai. It's hard to capture the level of poverty so let me just quote a line or two:
...85 percent of the workers were part of the informal, unorganized economy. A few residents trapped rats and frogs and fried them for dinner. A few ate the scrub grass at the sewage lake's edge. And these individuals, miserable souls, thereby made an inestimable contribution to their neighbors. They gave those slum dwellers who didn't fry rats and eat weeds a felt sense of their upward mobility.
...[they lived in] a hut on the camp's stenchiest lane, where the feral pigs gorged on rotten hotel food. The house was ten feet long, six feet wide, filthy, lightless, and crammed with firewood for cooking.
...[a resident] saw that he'd have to become a better scavenger. This entailed not dwelling on the obvious: that his profession could wreck a body in a very short time. Scrapes from dumpster-diving pocked and became infected. Where skin broke, maggots got in. Lice colonized hair, gangrene inched up fingers, calves swelled into tree trunks, and Abdul and his younger brothers kept a running wager about which of the scavengers would be the next to die.

I couldn't finish this book. It literally turned my stomach. I have a very high tolerance for depressing real-life narratives, but this book was simply too much for me. It seems to be a popular book club selection, but I can't recommend it.

Girl in Translation (Jean Kwok)
This debut novel very closely follows the author's true story of immigrating to New York from Shanghai with her mother in (I think) the 1980s. They manage to survive by working in a barely legal clothing sweatshop in lower Manhattan, and living in a hovel in Brooklyn with no heat, often no electricity, and thousands of roaches, rats, and mice. While it's an uplifting account of the main character's success in overcoming poverty, it's hard to read the descriptions of all those multi-footed house-mates. And again the main characters have to eat some of the most awful foods to stay alive.

Days of Destruction, Days of Revolt (Chris Hedges)
This is a nonfiction account of pockets of poverty in the United States, specifically an Indian reservation in South Dakota; Camden, NJ; a small town on the border of Kentucky and West Virginia; and a rural migrant-farmer community north of Miami. I only read part of this library book but only because it was due and I couldn't renew it. So I'll get back to it eventually. The part I read was about the South Dakota Indian reservation and wow was that eye-opening. And sad. Here are a few passages:

Whiteclay, Nebraska, an unincorporated village that exists for only a block and a half
before vanishing into the flatlands of the surrounding prairie, has only five or six permanent residents. It exists to sell beer and malt liquor.
Whiteclay’s primary business venture brings in an estimated $3 million a year in revenue. Whiteclay’s clients, however, are some of the poorest people in the country. They are Native Americans from the Pine Ridge reservation that is less than 200 feet away, just over the state line in South Dakota. … Alcoholism on Pine Ridge, although the sale of liquor is banned on the reservation, is estimated to be as high as eighty percent.
The fury of self-destruction sweeps across Pine Ridge like the Black Plague. Whiteclay is­­ the modern-day version of the old Indian agencies. It is where Indians surrender. It is where they hand over their self-esteem and autonomy and wait passively in line for a bag of flour, a piece of lard, a few blankets, and the firewater that blunts the pain of what many have become.
Families, wracked by alcoholism, poverty, despair, and domestic violence, living lives in which tenderness and security are grabbed in desperate snatches, disintegrate swiftly under the onslaught of the reservation. The violence imposed on Indian culture has become internalized. Despair and pain of this magnitude lead to lives dedicated to self-immolation. The agony is expressed in self-defeating and self-destructive urges that shred what is left of dignity and hope.


Depressed yet?

I've moved on to other books with either more humor or less reality: Our Gang by Philip Roth (dated but fun and easy), Every Day is Mother's Day by Hilary Mantel (great read and weird as cat sh*t; Hilary Mantel reminds me of Shirley Jackson), and Revenge Wears Prada: The Devil Returns by Lauren Weisberger (big-time guilty pleasure). I'm reading Revenge because of something I said at the most recent meeting of my book group. (I always say something that I regret at these monthly get-togethers.)  I was slightly critical of the writing in Girl in Translation.  The author got an MFA in creative writing at Columbia University so I was primed for a book with, well, creativity. But I found the writing to be flat, overly simple, and a bit dull. Nothing wrong with that of course, but it didn't seem very creative. The other group members disagreed with me heartily, saying that they loved the story (so did I) and they thought it was so interesting (so did I) so what's not to like? To prove to myself that I'm not a book snob who only likes books with flashy, literary flourishes I got Revenge from the library. No fear of finding literary flourishes in this book!

Friday, July 26, 2013

Hummingbird says hello. Or go away. Not sure what she's saying but she's not afraid of me.



Look at all those ornamental grasses providing wonderful homes for ticks just waiting for me to walk by. Yes, I think I do have tick PTSD, as my wise young friend from the PNW suggested in a recent comment. And speaking of ticks and their buddies the deer, look who was lounging around in the FENCED-IN back yard yesterday morning. I shooed her out through the very small little break between two sections of my "secure" fencing, a space so small that I never dreamed she or one of her dozens of pals would find. But she did, of course. She's relaxing after a big breakfast of hostas.
 
 
 

Saturday, July 20, 2013

The butterflies love our hot, humid weather. I do not.


 
I used to look at these perennial wildflowers (Monarda, AKA bergamot or bee balm) in my front yard with joy. Look how much the butterflies and bees love them. But after finding a deer tick on my stomach about a month ago all I can see are beautiful flowers harboring thousands and thousands of deadly ticks.  I'm entering week three of doxycycline, the antibiotic often used to ward off the dreaded Lyme disease. Meanwhile, I've developed a huge phobia about gardening or even walking around my yard. I had to muster up a lot of courage to take this little video. I was looking forward to the fall and winter when (I thought) the tick population dropped significantly until I read this: "Ticks can be active on winter days when the ground temperatures are above 45 degrees Fahrenheit." For a long time I've fantasized about spending my final years living in a big city. Get rid of the biggish house and the cars and live close to whatever I need: grocery store, library, hospital, funeral home. I'm ready to make the move but I doubt if my husband would agree.

Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Ganoderma Tsugae Tincture, for what ails you.








My clever sister (center of group picture, behind bearded young man--Jake--Rebecca's first sort-of boyfriend from high school) sent me this concoction. She harvested the Reishi mushrooms, top, and turned them into the tincture, middle. She and my brother-in-law (first bearded man on right, behind Rebecca's right shoulder) have been taking it for a year and haven't had a cold since. After I developed a whopping big head cold complete with two infected ears just hours after the wedding, my sis sent me a bottle of the stuff with instructions on how to take it. I'll report back next summer on its effectiveness. Meanwhile I'm taking nasty antibiotics (boo hiss) to clear up my ears and allow me to hear all the scintillating conversations I'm missing. [My niece is the dark-haired, tallish young lady in the back row towards the left, and the tallest man in the back is her husband.]

Friday, June 28, 2013

Thursday, June 27, 2013

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

"I tend to hold back my opinion on things that I know nothing of."

This remark came to me during a casual email exchange with someone about 40 years my junior but way, way wiser than I. It's a good principle to follow in life, even for someone of my advanced age. Never too late to learn.

[Photo: Father of the bride the evening before the wedding. Totally unrelated to the above quotation.]

Saturday, June 22, 2013

The Wedding!













It was glorious! Couldn't have been better. Weather cooperated, food was top-notch as expected, flower arranging on Saturday afternoon was fun if a bit chaotic.  Everyone at the Ashby Inn in Paris, VA, made this a 3-day weekend to remember forever. Bottom picture: mothers of bride and groom. Fair warning to my handful of readers: I'll be posting pictures for days and days.

Thursday, June 13, 2013

"IN MY HOME!.... Where my children come and play with their toys. In my home!"*

Overly dramatic of course but this quote sprang to mind this afternoon when a tornado swept just north of us. It didn't cause any injuries or even much damage that I've heard about, except for this car in the parking lot of a nearby Greek restaurant. We've parked in this lot many times. By tornado standards this was mild I know, but when it comes so close to your house it feels big.

Al Pacino in The Godfather.

The Wedding Weekend.

Wednesday: Bride and Groom depart Brooklyn in the evening after work, drive rental car to MD and arrive at 1:30 AM Thursday morning.

Thursday: Bride and Groom awake refreshed and ready for Wedding Weekend, which begins on Friday when they will arrive at the Ashby Inn in Paris, VA. Friday is the bride's birthday and they will celebrate alone at the Inn. At 4:30 PM a tornado sweeps north of Colesville, exactly where we live. No injuries, no damage. Mother Nature is trying to interfere with this wedding but I'm fighting Her off with silent chants and prayers.

Friday:

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Christina's weeds: remember to pull weeds in the Christina position. Millet's ladies probably ruined their backs bending like that.

 
A friend told me about injuring her back because she weeded too long over the weekend. She was enjoying it so much that she did it for hours. She's not the only friend or relative who over-gardens and pays dearly. So let's all adopt the Christina Pose and save our backs.

Monday, June 3, 2013

"all events are baked together"



I think this is a great piece of writing. And so interesting. Not sure it's useful but seems like it should be.
Not till 1908 did the German mathematician Hermann Minkowski announce his “radical” idea that space and time were a single entity: “Henceforth space by itself, and time by itself, are doomed to fade away into mere shadows, and only a kind of union of the two will preserve an independent reality.”
So spacetime was born. In spacetime all events are baked together, a four-dimensional continuum. Past and future are no more privileged than left and right or up and down. The time dimension only looks special for the reason Wells mentioned: our consciousness is involved. We have a limited perspective. At any instant we see only a slice of the loaf, a puny three-dimensional cross-section of the whole. For the modern physicist, reality is the whole thing, past and future joined in a single history. The sensation of now is just that, a sensation, and different for everyone. Instead of one master clock, we have clocks in multitudes. And other paraphernalia, too: light cones and world lines and time-like curves and other methods for charting the paths of light and objects through this four-dimensional space. To say that the spacetime view of reality has empowered the physicists of the past century would be an understatement.
From an article here.
Picture of US Capitol taken as we drove to Union Station to pick up the bride-to-be. Wedding is almost upon us. 

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Roses at the Monastery.







A few years ago my gardening friend Susan invited me along to see the gardens at this local Monastery, and I've been in love with the place ever since.  I spend a few hours each week helping out in the office -- filing, uploading pictures, just general office work. So every week for the past year I've walked through these gardens to the business office and I've been able to see all the gradual changes from season to season. Yesterday the roses were in full bloom and oh how beautiful they were. One of the guards who saw me taking pictures as I left insisted on taking mine. As usual, I'm loaded down with an armful of 'necessities,' including cans of seeds Brother Sebastian gave me. This picture reminds me to get some sun before my daughter's wedding in a few weeks. Not to mention a decent haircut. An eyelid lift would be nice too. Must remember to get a manicure. Pedicure. Lose 5 lbs. Stay calm.

Thursday, May 23, 2013

Takoma Park House and Garden Tour, May 5, 2013.





Just a few random shots from the tour, plus a nice funky building in downtown Takoma Park.

Sunday, May 19, 2013

A Colorado columbine successfully re-locates to Maryland.

Thanks to Kitt, who a couple of years ago sent me some seeds from her gorgeous patch of Columbines.  I planted the seeds a year ago but nothing happened. I saw this plant growing a few weeks ago and thought at first it was a weed. But my weed-loving instincts told me to let it be. I was rewarded! Only one plant came up (or survived me poking around in the ground nearby) but maybe I'll have more next year. Thanks again Kitt!

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

"Microbes: The Trillions of Creatures Governing Your Health"


Wow! I just heard an interview with Richard Conniff, author of "Microbes: The Trillions of Creatures Governing Your Health," and now will read the article from start to finish. Anyone who takes a lot of antibiotics should read it too. Article is here.  From the latest issue of Smithsonian magazine. Long Live Magazines!

Illustration by Stephanie Dalton Cowan (Smithsonian magazine, May 2013).

PS: Toss out that Purell while you're at it. I always thought that was such a corporate rip-off anyway.

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Clarence! Eight months old and still perfect in every way.

Sweet and Dandy.



I'd really like to hear this song at my daughter's wedding in June but I don't think it's going to happen. (It's complicated, plus I'm not totally sure I understand the lyrics although it is about a wedding and they sure sound happy.) That doesn't mean I can't listen to the song over and over, as I've been doing lately. The music we're having at the wedding will be a couple of singers with guitars, and although it will be lovely I'm sure, I'd be surprised if they could work this in. Here are the lyrics. (And if  you haven't seen the 1972 movie The Harder They Come you might want to try it. It's dated but oh the music!)

Sweet And Dandy by Toots And The Maytals
Etty in the room a cry
Mama say she must wipe her eye
Papa say she no fi foolish
Like she never been to school at all
It is no wonder
It's a perfect pander
While they were dancing in that bar room last night.

Johnson in the room afret
Uncle say he must hold up him head
Aunty say she no fi foolish
Like a no time fi him wedding day
It is no wonder
It's a perfect pander
While they were dancing in that bar room last night.
One pound ten for the wedding cake
Plenty bottle of cola wine
All the people them dress up in a white
Fi go eat out Johnson wedding cake
It is no wonder
It's a perfect pander
While they were dancing in that bar room last night.

Saturday, April 13, 2013

A mixed bag, but another blonde woman comes to my attention.



I'm reading the Henrietta Lacks book for my book club. I'm 78% through (you can always spot an e-book reader these days) and I'm not at all sure how I feel about the book. It's certainly a downer, but that shouldn't have been a surprise to me. It's a fascinating medical story, but a way-too-sad personal story. I was working for the National Cancer Institute in the 1970s, just about the time when Henrietta's family (living 30 miles north of me) was beginning to fully appreciate how her cells were being used. During the course of any given day at work I would read or type or say the words "HeLa cells" constantly. Little did I know. Although I DID know. I knew that HeLa stood for a woman named Helen Lane, which turned out to be not exactly right. And that her cells were being used everywhere to study chemotherapeutic agents. Sort of makes me uncomfortable.

And sadly I must once again call out a blonde woman for some criticism. The woman above, who will go unnamed, said an awful, hateful thing about another blonde woman, Meghan McCain, and it made news, of a sort, on many so-called news sites. This particular blonde woman gets my award for lowest of the low, but I fully admit that she really knows how to get attention. And I guess she makes a living at it. Horrible woman.

Monday, April 8, 2013

Betty Draper is a whack job.

It may appear that I'm picking on blonde women, see last post, but I'm really not. It also appears that I'm not thinking very deep thoughts these days, which is true. For fans of Mad Men, you will know what I mean about Betty being a whack job. She was never particularly stable but she's now way over the top psychologically.  As one headline said today, she's now "WTF Betty." It was great to have the show back last night. 

Friday, April 5, 2013

I've read trashier books but not many.



But I'm enjoying every single badly written sentence in this (library) book. I've been mentally composing some generous words to put here about the book or the author, sort of in the spirit of not being snarky or holier than thou. But then I read a few more sentences and I laugh in amazement. It's a hoot. Too bad four children are involved and had to watch the story unfold. Or will find this book in the future and be tempted to read it. I should be ashamed to be spending my time on it (but confessing it here makes it OK somehow. What's up with that?).

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Look at those stargazers in the right background of this 15+ year old photo! Daughter with Socks, Wonderful Cat of the Past.

But about those stargazers. You can see three groups of them on the right. That shows how much the wildlife has changed in our backyard in 20 years. When the top photograph was taken we had no deer fencing in our back yard and we had big hostas and those lilies. We certainly saw deer from time to time and they were free to wander over the very ground Socks and Daughter are sitting on. But apparently they didn't. Because look at all those stargazers! 

And there she is once again, February 22, 2013, with Sean. Wedding coming up soon. [Clothes to find/buy!]


I bought some of the herbs that I plan to nurture into much bigger herbs to use as planter centerpieces for the June wedding.  Behnke's Nursery had a good selection of herbs, but not the full selection they'll have over the next weeks. I watched an employee with an old-fashioned clipboard and a printed list of different herbs and she was counting and checking them off. I love that stuff.


Fun jobs. Being paid by Stephen Colbert to think up silly anagrams like this one.




Crisp Bee Urine

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Powerful blog post.

I generally don't follow crime stories, especially those involviing rape, children, or abuse in any form.  But I read this blog post and thought it was worth passing along. I hope President Obama reads it too. I think he would probably change the way he speaks as a result.

Thanks

Saturday, March 16, 2013

Must finish by Tuesday night. Doubtful.




I joined a book club recently. This is what we're discussing on Tuesday night. I'm on page 318 of 672, and the likelihood of me finishing by then is very small.  I'm sure I can find an online summary with plot spoilers to fill me in, but this is one of those book clubs -- I discovered after the fact -- that meets to have a great home-cooked meal sprinkled lightly, or not, with book talk. So I don't necessarily feel that I must know the outcome of the novel since I probably won't be the only one who doesn't finish it. And that means there might not be much discussion anyway.

I'm undecided about staying with this particular group. I'm very compatible with the small group of eight women -- we like the same kinds of books, we live close enough, and the group has been together for more than 20 years so they have staying power. Although I like to cook, I don't like to cook for foodies. And hostessing is not my strength. I just wanted to join a simple club that sat in someone's living room or in a local diner/coffee shop yakking about a specific book, and books in general, for an hour or so.

At the first meeting I attended, in February, we discussed State of Wonder by Ann Patchett. Interesting novel with a lot of side issues worthy of discussion. We spent about 20 minutes actually talking about the book, and that's a generous estimate. Dinner -- which was delicious and discussed thoroughly -- was scallops and grapefruit risotto and sauteed chick-pea patties and fruit and coconut cake and other dishes I've forgotten. It was in the home of someone who lives in an older section of upper NW DC in a Sears house, 1920s vintage I think she said, with a kitchen overlooking the dining room. Perfect for someone cooking a 100-course meal from scratch while talking to eight guests who are milling about asking dozens of questions about the food and the cooking thereof. She handled it beautifully.

I think it will be my turn to host the dinner (sprinkled with book talk) in July or August, although I might ask to do it earlier just to get it out of the way. Then if I quit I will have paid my way, so to speak.



Thursday, March 14, 2013

Well, maybe next time for Stephen. And thanks to the always funny SF Margo for the other photo.


Although I'm not a Catholic I spend time each week at the place below, the Franciscan Monastery of the Holy Land in America in Northeast DC. I'll be there tomorrow and expect to see lots of atta' boys among the brown-garbed brothers.

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Sunday, February 10, 2013

Another no-yeast, no-knead, no-time Bread


Preheat oven to 375

Combine:
flour (not self-rising), 3 cups sifted
baking powder, 3 teaspoons
salt, 1 teaspoon
sugar, 1/4 cup

Stir in:
beer, 12 oz
melted butter, 1/4 cup (optional)
Parmesan cheese, shredded or grated, 1/4 cup (optional)

Pour into a greased loaf pan

Bake 1 hour

Cool 15 minutes