Saturday, September 14, 2013
Critters in my yard and nearby.
I know that the caterpillar became a black swallowtail butterfly and that Lucy likes studying the praying mantis outside the front window. But what is (are?) that (those?) flying insect(s) on my leg? It (they?) landed while Doug and I were canoeing around the local reservoir recently. They landed, flew away, returned, flew away, returned, on and on. If it's a them they spent a long, long time hooked up like that. And I mean hooked up in the sense that it's used most often these days.
Thursday, September 12, 2013
According to that ex-KGB guy who likes to rip off his shirt occasionally and show us his naked body. Which I find hilarious.
It is extremely dangerous to encourage people to see themselves as exceptional, whatever the motivation. There are big countries and small countries, rich and poor, those with long democratic traditions and those still finding their way to democracy. Their policies differ, too. We are all different, but ...God* created us equal.
Hard to argue with this, right? Um, apparently not.
It's also hard to believe that a guy who likes to pose for such pictures now and then doesn't think of himself as exceptional, but I'll let that slide for now. I've always cringed when I read about Americans, or the United States, as being exceptional. So arrogant! It's a pretty great deal we've got here in the ole U S of A (well, for most of us but certainly not all) but we really need to get over ourselves. Or at least stop telling the rest of the world that we're exceptional (and that includes, I'm sorry to say, Mr. Obama who doesn't do much that I disagree with).
*Or Mother Nature.
Hard to argue with this, right? Um, apparently not.
It's also hard to believe that a guy who likes to pose for such pictures now and then doesn't think of himself as exceptional, but I'll let that slide for now. I've always cringed when I read about Americans, or the United States, as being exceptional. So arrogant! It's a pretty great deal we've got here in the ole U S of A (well, for most of us but certainly not all) but we really need to get over ourselves. Or at least stop telling the rest of the world that we're exceptional (and that includes, I'm sorry to say, Mr. Obama who doesn't do much that I disagree with).
*Or Mother Nature.
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
I like to think of myself as a person who doesn't crave unnecessary things, but.
I love these! And I must admit that I want one. Not going to happen. A regular white one costs about $200 and these go for about $800. I can think of much better uses for $600 but it would make me smile several times a day. Lots more to look at here.
Monday, September 2, 2013
I nominate this word for the compost pile.
Nonplussed. What a bad, bad word. So confusing. So often misused. So often the cause of me having to stop reading whatever I'm reading to, once again, look it up. It does not mean "unimpressed" or "indifferent." It means "confused" or "perplexed." Maybe blogging about it will imprint it on my brain.
Sunday, September 1, 2013
I'm a fan of whimsy but there may be limits.

I'm reading Tom Robbins' novel Skinny Legs and All. I've wanted to read one of his books for years and, for no particular reason, I chose this as my first. In addition to some humans, other main characters include a can of beans, a dirty sock, a conch shell, and a spoon. These characters have interesting conversations and through some sort of quantum mechanical plot device are able to move about. Right now they're headed for Jerusalem -- from Idaho. Another feature of this book is an Airstream RV that's been redesigned to look like a turkey. I'm an equal opportunity reader for the most part. Not a fan of science fiction or vampire novels, but otherwise I'm pretty much open to anything. But I am having a bit of trouble with a talking can of beans. I'll plow ahead because I'm determined to finish this book and try some of his others.
Note: I officially gave up on this book on Monday, Sept 2. Mostly because my knowledge of the Old Testament is just not robust enough to understand all the references. But I'm not giving up on Tom Robbins. I'll try Jitterbug Perfume soon and if THAT doesn't take then I'll cross this author off my "must be read" list.
Tuesday, August 27, 2013
A nifty website.
I stumbled upon this website, called Cosmetics and Skin, while googling around reading about skin cleansers. The site seems to take no advertising -- a labor of love I guess. I especially like the links on the right -- histories of different manufacturers, Maybelline for example. The old print ads and photos gathered there are wonderful. It makes me think how much the internet has added to the lives of people who get slightly obsessed with something -- like skin care products. With some time and effort they can gather all their knowledge in one nice package and put it out there for the rest of us to stumble upon.
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Library books on Kindle. Curious factoid.
I've started borrowing library books on my Kindle (the Kindle I swore I'd never own and never love but I do own and I do love). The last two books I borrowed are still on my Kindle despite having long since reached the end of the loan periods. I got the usual notices via email when the loan periods had ended, my Amazon Kindle account tells me that the loans have expired, but there they sit, on my Kindle and ready to be read over and over and over.
I Googled around to see if this is common and yes, it is. Most people seem to think that I'm not holding up the line for future readers by keeping the books on my device. But it does seem strange, and I feel a little like I'm cheating by not removing the books. But I'm going to keep them there to see how long this goes on.
We live in an odd world these days. Or maybe it just seems odd to someone my age who has witnessed all these changes in communications. I learned to type on a manual typewriter, my first office job seemed so high-tech at the time because I used a fancy electric typewriter, and now I can see into some Chinese person's bedroom just by going to Google Earth. Will my kids be able to say, when they're my age, that they've seen such dramatic changes? Hard to believe.
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
It looks funny but I think it works for Glue Ear.
In mid-June I got a head cold, just a routine head cold, but it caused both of my ears to become blocked up. So much so that I couldn't hear much of anything for a week or more. I finally broke down (relatives and friends hounded me into it) and saw my doctor. She prescribed antibiotics (grrrr -- I knew she'd do it even though I'm in that club that thinks we take far too many unnecessary antibiotics). But, it turns out to have been a good thing because at this same time I'd been bitten by a tiny tick and within a few days after starting the antibiotics for the ears I noticed the classic bull's eye around the site of the bite. The doctor extended the Rx for the anti's and said they would do double-duty: combat the nasty Lyme spirochete and any bacterial opportunists in my ears. She said I could also take standard OTC antihistamines (over the pharmacist's counter that is, since you now have to register with the Drug Enforcement Agency to score pseudoephedrine -- thanks methheads).
Two weeks of antihistamines and three weeks of antibiotics later one ear was still annoyingly blocked up. So I saw an ENT specialist, reluctantly. I was pleasantly surprised when he sent me home with this little balloon device. Nothing pharmaceutical, nothing invasive -- unless you count blowing air up your nose invasive.
I think it helped! I used it for a week, felt that my ear was gradually clearing up, then stopped for a few days. The blockage started creeping back so I resumed using it, and now my ears feel fine. As with many medical treatments, I'll never know if the ears were going to clear up anyway so I don't know for a fact that the balloon worked, but I'll use it again if this should happen again.
Otovent seems to be big in the UK. People there use it for what they call "glue ear." I've been telling people that I had "blockage of the Eustachian tubes" which everyone seemed to immediately understand. But if I was in London I could have just said "glue ear" -- a vaguely disgusting term although it is succinct and descriptive.
I loved telling people that I was treating my blocked Eustachian tubes by blowing up a balloon with my nose.
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
My summer of reading Poverty Porn.

Nothing to Envy: Ordinary Lives in North Korea (Barbara Demick)
I know (knew) nothing about North Korea before I read this book. It's the true story of how a handful of North Koreans managed to escape from this repressive country, and the reader learns much about the famine and starvation that has plagued the country ever since the fall of the Soviet Union. Among the many vivid images is an account of how starving citizens would head outside in the very early morning looking for grass shoots that had popped up overnight. This was considered breakfast.
The Clergyman's Daughter (George Orwell)
I'm slowly working my way through George Orwell's "other" novels -- meaning those other than the ones many readers know well: 1984 and Animal Farm. This novel is set in the UK in the mid-1930s. Part of the plot involves a period of amnesia for the main character who finds herself wandering around the countryside searching for food, which often means eating rotting apples she finds in orchards, and wrapping herself in newspapers at night in a mostly unsuccessful attempt to ward off the cold.
Behind the Beautiful Forevers (Katherine Boo)
This book, written by an LA Times reporter who spent several years living in Mumbai, India, tells the horrific story of improverished trash scavengers who live in improvised cities near the international airport in Mumbai. It's hard to capture the level of poverty so let me just quote a line or two:
...85 percent of the workers were part of the informal, unorganized economy. A few residents trapped rats and frogs and fried them for dinner. A few ate the scrub grass at the sewage lake's edge. And these individuals, miserable souls, thereby made an inestimable contribution to their neighbors. They gave those slum dwellers who didn't fry rats and eat weeds a felt sense of their upward mobility.
...[they lived in] a hut on the camp's stenchiest lane, where the feral pigs gorged on rotten hotel food. The house was ten feet long, six feet wide, filthy, lightless, and crammed with firewood for cooking.
...[a resident] saw that he'd have to become a better scavenger. This entailed not dwelling on the obvious: that his profession could wreck a body in a very short time. Scrapes from dumpster-diving pocked and became infected. Where skin broke, maggots got in. Lice colonized hair, gangrene inched up fingers, calves swelled into tree trunks, and Abdul and his younger brothers kept a running wager about which of the scavengers would be the next to die.
I couldn't finish this book. It literally turned my stomach. I have a very high tolerance for depressing real-life narratives, but this book was simply too much for me. It seems to be a popular book club selection, but I can't recommend it.
Girl in Translation (Jean Kwok)
This debut novel very closely follows the author's true story of immigrating to New York from Shanghai with her mother in (I think) the 1980s. They manage to survive by working in a barely legal clothing sweatshop in lower Manhattan, and living in a hovel in Brooklyn with no heat, often no electricity, and thousands of roaches, rats, and mice. While it's an uplifting account of the main character's success in overcoming poverty, it's hard to read the descriptions of all those multi-footed house-mates. And again the main characters have to eat some of the most awful foods to stay alive.
Days of Destruction, Days of Revolt (Chris Hedges)
This is a nonfiction account of pockets of poverty in the United States, specifically an Indian reservation in South Dakota; Camden, NJ; a small town on the border of Kentucky and West Virginia; and a rural migrant-farmer community north of Miami. I only read part of this library book but only because it was due and I couldn't renew it. So I'll get back to it eventually. The part I read was about the South Dakota Indian reservation and wow was that eye-opening. And sad. Here are a few passages:
Whiteclay, Nebraska, an unincorporated village that exists for only a block and a half
before vanishing into the flatlands of the surrounding prairie, has only five or six permanent residents. It exists to sell beer and malt liquor.
before vanishing into the flatlands of the surrounding prairie, has only five or six permanent residents. It exists to sell beer and malt liquor.
Whiteclay’s primary business venture brings in an estimated $3 million a year in revenue. Whiteclay’s clients, however, are some of the poorest people in the country. They are Native Americans from the Pine Ridge reservation that is less than 200 feet away, just over the state line in South Dakota. … Alcoholism on Pine Ridge, although the sale of liquor is banned on the reservation, is estimated to be as high as eighty percent.
The fury of self-destruction sweeps across Pine Ridge like the Black Plague. Whiteclay is the modern-day version of the old Indian agencies. It is where Indians surrender. It is where they hand over their self-esteem and autonomy and wait passively in line for a bag of flour, a piece of lard, a few blankets, and the firewater that blunts the pain of what many have become.
Families, wracked by alcoholism, poverty, despair, and domestic violence, living lives in which tenderness and security are grabbed in desperate snatches, disintegrate swiftly under the onslaught of the reservation. The violence imposed on Indian culture has become internalized. Despair and pain of this magnitude lead to lives dedicated to self-immolation. The agony is expressed in self-defeating and self-destructive urges that shred what is left of dignity and hope.
Depressed yet?
I've moved on to other books with either more humor or less reality: Our Gang by Philip Roth (dated but fun and easy), Every Day is Mother's Day by Hilary Mantel (great read and weird as cat sh*t; Hilary Mantel reminds me of Shirley Jackson), and Revenge Wears Prada: The Devil Returns by Lauren Weisberger (big-time guilty pleasure). I'm reading Revenge because of something I said at the most recent meeting of my book group. (I always say something that I regret at these monthly get-togethers.) I was slightly critical of the writing in Girl in Translation. The author got an MFA in creative writing at Columbia University so I was primed for a book with, well, creativity. But I found the writing to be flat, overly simple, and a bit dull. Nothing wrong with that of course, but it didn't seem very creative. The other group members disagreed with me heartily, saying that they loved the story (so did I) and they thought it was so interesting (so did I) so what's not to like? To prove to myself that I'm not a book snob who only likes books with flashy, literary flourishes I got Revenge from the library. No fear of finding literary flourishes in this book!
Friday, July 26, 2013
Hummingbird says hello. Or go away. Not sure what she's saying but she's not afraid of me.
Look at all those ornamental grasses providing wonderful homes for ticks just waiting for me to walk by. Yes, I think I do have tick PTSD, as my wise young friend from the PNW suggested in a recent comment. And speaking of ticks and their buddies the deer, look who was lounging around in the FENCED-IN back yard yesterday morning. I shooed her out through the very small little break between two sections of my "secure" fencing, a space so small that I never dreamed she or one of her dozens of pals would find. But she did, of course. She's relaxing after a big breakfast of hostas.
Saturday, July 20, 2013
The butterflies love our hot, humid weather. I do not.
Wednesday, July 3, 2013
Ganoderma Tsugae Tincture, for what ails you.
My clever sister (center of group picture, behind bearded young man--Jake--Rebecca's first sort-of boyfriend from high school) sent me this concoction. She harvested the Reishi mushrooms, top, and turned them into the tincture, middle. She and my brother-in-law (first bearded man on right, behind Rebecca's right shoulder) have been taking it for a year and haven't had a cold since. After I developed a whopping big head cold complete with two infected ears just hours after the wedding, my sis sent me a bottle of the stuff with instructions on how to take it. I'll report back next summer on its effectiveness. Meanwhile I'm taking nasty antibiotics (boo hiss) to clear up my ears and allow me to hear all the scintillating conversations I'm missing. [My niece is the dark-haired, tallish young lady in the back row towards the left, and the tallest man in the back is her husband.]
Friday, June 28, 2013
Thursday, June 27, 2013
All I see when I look at this very short, very choppy video is my 5-year-old little girl.
Dancing with Jackie and Megan.
Tuesday, June 25, 2013
"I tend to hold back my opinion on things that I know nothing of."
This remark came to me during a casual email exchange with someone about 40 years my junior but way, way wiser than I. It's a good principle to follow in life, even for someone of my advanced age. Never too late to learn.
[Photo: Father of the bride the evening before the wedding. Totally unrelated to the above quotation.]
[Photo: Father of the bride the evening before the wedding. Totally unrelated to the above quotation.]
Saturday, June 22, 2013
The Wedding!
It was glorious! Couldn't have been better. Weather cooperated, food was top-notch as expected, flower arranging on Saturday afternoon was fun if a bit chaotic. Everyone at the Ashby Inn in Paris, VA, made this a 3-day weekend to remember forever. Bottom picture: mothers of bride and groom. Fair warning to my handful of readers: I'll be posting pictures for days and days.
Thursday, June 13, 2013
"IN MY HOME!.... Where my children come and play with their toys. In my home!"*
Overly dramatic of course but this quote sprang to mind this afternoon when a tornado swept just north of us. It didn't cause any injuries or even much damage that I've heard about, except for this car in the parking lot of a nearby Greek restaurant. We've parked in this lot many times. By tornado standards this was mild I know, but when it comes so close to your house it feels big.
Al Pacino in The Godfather.
Al Pacino in The Godfather.
The Wedding Weekend.
Wednesday: Bride and Groom depart Brooklyn in the evening after work, drive rental car to MD and arrive at 1:30 AM Thursday morning.
Thursday: Bride and Groom awake refreshed and ready for Wedding Weekend, which begins on Friday when they will arrive at the Ashby Inn in Paris, VA. Friday is the bride's birthday and they will celebrate alone at the Inn. At 4:30 PM a tornado sweeps north of Colesville, exactly where we live. No injuries, no damage. Mother Nature is trying to interfere with this wedding but I'm fighting Her off with silent chants and prayers.
Friday:
Thursday: Bride and Groom awake refreshed and ready for Wedding Weekend, which begins on Friday when they will arrive at the Ashby Inn in Paris, VA. Friday is the bride's birthday and they will celebrate alone at the Inn. At 4:30 PM a tornado sweeps north of Colesville, exactly where we live. No injuries, no damage. Mother Nature is trying to interfere with this wedding but I'm fighting Her off with silent chants and prayers.
Friday:
Wednesday, June 5, 2013
Christina's weeds: remember to pull weeds in the Christina position. Millet's ladies probably ruined their backs bending like that.
A friend told me about injuring her back because she weeded too long over the weekend. She was enjoying it so much that she did it for hours. She's not the only friend or relative who over-gardens and pays dearly. So let's all adopt the Christina Pose and save our backs.
Monday, June 3, 2013
"all events are baked together"
I think this is a great piece of writing. And so interesting. Not sure it's useful but seems like it should be.
Not till 1908 did the German mathematician Hermann Minkowski announce his “radical” idea that space and time were a single entity: “Henceforth space by itself, and time by itself, are doomed to fade away into mere shadows, and only a kind of union of the two will preserve an independent reality.”
So spacetime was born. In spacetime all events are baked together, a four-dimensional continuum. Past and future are no more privileged than left and right or up and down. The time dimension only looks special for the reason Wells mentioned: our consciousness is involved. We have a limited perspective. At any instant we see only a slice of the loaf, a puny three-dimensional cross-section of the whole. For the modern physicist, reality is the whole thing, past and future joined in a single history. The sensation of now is just that, a sensation, and different for everyone. Instead of one master clock, we have clocks in multitudes. And other paraphernalia, too: light cones and world lines and time-like curves and other methods for charting the paths of light and objects through this four-dimensional space. To say that the spacetime view of reality has empowered the physicists of the past century would be an understatement.
From an article here.
Picture of US Capitol taken as we drove to Union Station to pick up the bride-to-be. Wedding is almost upon us.
Saturday, May 25, 2013
Roses at the Monastery.
A few years ago my gardening friend Susan invited me along to see the gardens at this local Monastery, and I've been in love with the place ever since. I spend a few hours each week helping out in the office -- filing, uploading pictures, just general office work. So every week for the past year I've walked through these gardens to the business office and I've been able to see all the gradual changes from season to season. Yesterday the roses were in full bloom and oh how beautiful they were. One of the guards who saw me taking pictures as I left insisted on taking mine. As usual, I'm loaded down with an armful of 'necessities,' including cans of seeds Brother Sebastian gave me. This picture reminds me to get some sun before my daughter's wedding in a few weeks. Not to mention a decent haircut. An eyelid lift would be nice too. Must remember to get a manicure. Pedicure. Lose 5 lbs. Stay calm.
Thursday, May 23, 2013
Sunday, May 19, 2013
A Colorado columbine successfully re-locates to Maryland.
Thanks to Kitt, who a couple of years ago sent me some seeds from her gorgeous patch of Columbines. I planted the seeds a year ago but nothing happened. I saw this plant growing a few weeks ago and thought at first it was a weed. But my weed-loving instincts told me to let it be. I was rewarded! Only one plant came up (or survived me poking around in the ground nearby) but maybe I'll have more next year. Thanks again Kitt!
Wednesday, May 8, 2013
"Microbes: The Trillions of Creatures Governing Your Health"
Wow! I just heard an interview with Richard Conniff, author of "Microbes: The Trillions of Creatures Governing Your Health," and now will read the article from start to finish. Anyone who takes a lot of antibiotics should read it too. Article is here. From the latest issue of Smithsonian magazine. Long Live Magazines!
Illustration by Stephanie Dalton Cowan (Smithsonian magazine, May 2013).
PS: Toss out that Purell while you're at it. I always thought that was such a corporate rip-off anyway.
Thursday, May 2, 2013
Sweet and Dandy.
I'd really like to hear this song at my daughter's wedding in June but I don't think it's going to happen. (It's complicated, plus I'm not totally sure I understand the lyrics although it is about a wedding and they sure sound happy.) That doesn't mean I can't listen to the song over and over, as I've been doing lately. The music we're having at the wedding will be a couple of singers with guitars, and although it will be lovely I'm sure, I'd be surprised if they could work this in. Here are the lyrics. (And if you haven't seen the 1972 movie The Harder They Come you might want to try it. It's dated but oh the music!)
Sweet And Dandy by Toots And The Maytals
Etty in the room a cry
Mama say she must wipe her eye
Papa say she no fi foolish
Like she never been to school at all
It is no wonder
It's a perfect pander
While they were dancing in that bar room last night.
Johnson in the room afret
Uncle say he must hold up him head
Aunty say she no fi foolish
Like a no time fi him wedding day
It is no wonder
It's a perfect pander
While they were dancing in that bar room last night.
One pound ten for the wedding cake
Plenty bottle of cola wine
All the people them dress up in a white
Fi go eat out Johnson wedding cake
It is no wonder
It's a perfect pander
While they were dancing in that bar room last night.
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